1. Have traditional Hawaiian and other Polynesian music playing when guests arrive.

You can order music off of iTunes.  I will provide a list in the near future but for now think fun, carefree light reggae party music.  I would mix in some authentic Hawaiian music in there too. I am Polynesian and even I can get a little tired of the stereotypical ukulele songs that you so often hear when Hollywood is trying to do anything Hawaiian.